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December 22nd, 2009 Egypt, Lebanon, Uncategorized, arab, blogging, campaign, diary, female, language, male, memory, society, sportsTags: campaign, Egypt, female, feminism, initiative, kolena-laila, Lebanon, male, online, women

أخدت كسرة…وأنتِ؟

September 5th, 2009 Lebanon, arab, female, language, maleTags: campaign, female, Lebanon, middle east, ngo, women, women's rights

Thanks to Lasto Adri for the link…Here’s the campaign’s website: http://www.khedekasra.com but it’s down for maintenance at this moment..

I’m in love…

About this Equality…

May 15th, 2009 arab, female, male, society, وآكلة

I need to straight up a point here:

When I call for male and female equality I mean I want men to be as good as women not the opposite. Although this is a male-dominant society -the one and only Middle East-, women are much better. And I would never want to change myself or any other female to reach the miserable state of the typical Middle East “man”.

A very simple example, sexually promiscuous men shouldn’t be encouraged (they’re free after all) instead of looked at as studs and real “Men”. While on the other side, women should be granted the abortion rights no matter how bad her reputation was when she was raped!! This stupid ‘You Deserve It’ theory SUCKS!!

So PLEASE dear man, don’t understand me talking about women rights that I look up to you, or that I want and fight to be like you…

I’m sorry if this offended anyone but I’ve had enough with the sexist comments I hear each time I discuss the Arab Women Issues in the area with someone.

Sick Society

January 28th, 2009 female, male, society, وآكلة

إكتشفت إنّو

October 30th, 2008 female, male, society, إكتشاف

الموظّف الجديد عنّا شكله مش عاجبه إنو المسؤولة عنه بنت

ما بعرف ليه بس كتير مستمتعة بالموضوع…شماتة؟

What am I?

May 1st, 2008 Religion, Sectarianism, female, male, society, thoughts

I can’t answer this question..I can’t find the category I fit in…I don’t know if it’s bad or not…Should I be like this or I’m just lost in this world…Is it my world or should I look for mine (if any) somewhere else…There are lots of life aspects I can’t fit in…But the only torturing two are Religion and Society!!

Religion
I’m not an atheist but I don’t see myself following ANY of the current religions…yes current…I don’t believe that today’s Islam is the true Islam, I don’t believe that today’s Christianity is the true Christianity, I don’t believe that todays Judaism is the true Judaism, I believe in Science AND Spirituality..to me, They’re ONE…I don’t trust any religious figures…I believe in God, The powerful supreme energy, Fate, Allah or whatever the term you use…I believe in the afterlife…I believe in Good and Evil…I believe that everyone should worship(or not) whoever s/he wants….I hate sectarianism…I believe that Morals came before Religion not the opposite…Religion just documented them…I believe that we have a very powerful brain and we should use it…and I believe that we make our own destinies..
Then what am I?

Society
Ours is very very very bad…We’re in desperate need for a pimp-my-society makeover project…I hate sexism…I hate ageism…I hate prejudice…I hate how it’s a masculine society…I hate how feminism is so wrong in here…I hate how our society is very shallow…I hate how it’s using globalisation wrongly…I hate how the most important issues that affects the society are only taboos…I hate how it’s trying to be like WORSE societies!! People should always try to be better no??
I want to help to make it better…but how??? People don’t listen..and I hate that!!! I know some people think the same way..but why do I still feel completely alone??

What am I??? I feel I’m right but lost, I feel I don’t fit in here but at the same time I can’t live anywhere else!!! Why??

I don’t know if I make sense or it’s just PMS…I didn’t plan this post…I’m just angry and wanted to let it out…By the way, I might quit my job tomorrow!!!

Leh Ba2a?!

July 11th, 2007 female, male, society

Sexual Harassment, AGAIN!

April 11th, 2007 female, male, society

To a harasser (aka sick animal):
It’s not my fault!
I don’t want your finger in my butt!
I don’t want you rubbing your elbow to my breast!
I don’t want to hear how do you want to put it in me!
Don’t tell me that some girls want it because it’s not harassment then you idiot!!!
If you see that my clothes are inappropriate, you do NOT have the right to do ANYTHING about it!!!
When I say no, I won’t change my mind when you pull out a knife!!!
Trust me, I really won’t change my mind!
You are a sick bastard!

To a harassed girl:
You encourage him to do more if you keep your mouth shut!
Speak up, scream, yell, just don’t let him get away with it!
Do you know that he brags about it with his friends?!
Do you know he’s proud with what he has done to you?!
Will you let him move on with his life and look for another prey?!
It’s his fault to harass you, but it’s your fault to let him go unpunished!!
Don’t be ashamed, it’s what HE is supposed to to!
Don’t make him prevent you from living normally!
Make him suffer!!

Golaniya, you inspired me to write this but believe me I talked before bas “la 7ayata leman tonadi”!!

list

March 20th, 2007 male, thoughts

MEN!!

March 12th, 2007 Technology, diary, male, thoughts

Why do guys find it so hard to accept that it’s normal to find a girl who can sign up for the MCSE track??! -which is silly by the way according to the first session!

Why do guys find it weird to see a girl that can code and hack?!?! -I saw a blog post talking about this too but I lost it!

Why can’t some of the guys I know just accept that I can kick their asses when it comes to programming?! -call me a show off but I really can!

It’s really frustrating to realize that no matter how hard I try, I would be still looked at as a girl who cares about nothing but her hair and fashion. -My hair now looks amazing by the way